| Relationship Issues: We Can All Be Happy In Our Relationships!
Relationships are one of the main areas causing us unhappiness, most of it unnecessary.
Whether we have a new partner, or married for years, glitches tend to occur sooner or later, often leading to painful break ups that could be avoided.
More often then not we tend to blame our partners for problems arising without considering, that the root cause more often then not may just be our own expectations as we have adopted them from our parents, our culture, the media, religion, rather then our partners unwillingness to make things work.
Our other half of course faces the same situation, his or her expectations will differ in some way from yours as the field of past experience and upbringing differs, no matter how much you think you have in common.
Seldom do people really think alike.
Actually it is impossible and no more than a shallow romantic generalization akin to cheap fiction.
What tends to happen is this:
Because of our conditioning from the past, subconsciously we are constantly re-enacting old learned behaviors translating them into beliefs and expectations to suit us without checking their validity for personal circumstances.
This type of learned behavior is the beginning of most relationship problems:
We are judging from OUR viewpoint seeing the truth as we KNOW it, well, at least so we think!
It appears everybody behaves in this way, it is what society taught us.
The problem is that most of this kind of behavior happens on a subconscious level. Relationship Issues: Clearing Old Patterns With EFT
When we are stuck in and reacting to old thought patterns without realizing it we tend to become defensive, judgmental, short tempered and anxious.
Ego takes over, Reason and objectivity are out of the window.
Let's face it: We have all been there.
 And what's more, quite often we actually see 'IT' coming, but can we prevent it?
Sadly the answer for most of us is 'no'.
With EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique we now have a method that helps you to recognize and de-activate these old patterns.
It will help you gain clarity of thinking and give you surprising new perspectives on old , time honored ideas. As a result your reaction to your partner begins to change, as your outlook on the world changes too.
Just one partner changing his/ her approach in a relationship will be enough to change the dynamics of the relationship. You will be amazed by the results! Relationship Issues: With Most Therapies Partners Need To Be Present
This is often a potentially dangerous situation as both partners compete to be in the right when presenting their version of truth to the therapist.
Not so with Emotional Freedom Technique.
EFT helps you to get to know yourself better in a natural, easy and often humorous fashion.
This helps to alter your behavior as your view of the world changes. As you change so will the people around you and this includes your partner.
EFT For Couples Humor is a great relaxer and unifier. In EFT we use humor a lot.
I believe that this is one of the reasons why Emotional Freedom Technique is so powerful in resolving relationship issues.
When a couple agrees to attend an EFT workshop or have EFT sessions together, you listen to your partner and tap along with him or her whilst an issue is being addressed. The practitioner will guide you through the process. This is done in an easy and relaxed fashion, surprisingly often bringing out the funny side of a problem.
Relationship Issues: Humor facilitates reframing of a situation.
The critical function of the brain is temporarily switched off thus allowing new views of an old situation to be formed.
Choosing the right practitioner is naturally very important and will dictate the level of success of any therapy. It is always more difficult to deal with two people rather then one, but when success is achieved it is most rewarding for all involved.
Confidence And Relationship Breakups... What You Need To Know! Some thought about the True meaning of Love. Defining what Love really means is multifaceted. Many books have been written about it throughout history.
Love is the most important thing in our lives and getting it right is the key to happiness and success, forget about anything else.
If you can get love right and be congruent with it your life will be a success, it is automatic and can only be this way. Read more about True Love here, What is True Love?
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